Makana ʻO ka holomua ma ka moeʻuhane no ka mare
- ʻO kāna mālama nui a hoʻolohe i kāna kāne: Inā ʻike ka wahine male i kona mua ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i kona mālama nui ʻana i kāna mau hana a me kona hoʻolohe ʻana i kāna kāne ma kāna mau mea āpau.
ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole kūʻē ʻo ia i kāna kāne a kūpaʻa i kāna mau makemake. - Nā pilina maikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli: Inā hauʻoli ka mea mua i ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i nā kūlana maikaʻi a me ka hiki koke mai o ka nūhou hauʻoli i nā lā e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ke ʻano o kahi manō hōʻaiʻē i ka moeʻuhane i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ka pilina maikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli i ke ola male. - He hōʻailona o ka maikaʻi, ola, a me ka ikaika o ka pilina ʻohana: Inā ʻike ka wahine male i ka lili iā ia ma mua ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia paha kekahi o nā hōʻailona o ka maikaʻi, ola, a me ka ikaika o ka pilina ma ka ʻohana.
Hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ke ola o ke aloha a me ke aloha ma waena o ka ʻohana. - ʻO ka ʻaiʻē a me ke kūkākūkā ʻana: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi holomua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hōʻaiʻē manawa a me ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kōkua a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Pili paha kēia i ke kālā a i ʻole ka ʻike ma kekahi kahua. - ʻO ka hauʻoli a me ke kūpaʻa o ke ola male: Inā hāpai ka wahine me nā māhoe i ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i kona hauʻoli a me kāna pilina ikaika me kāna kāne.
He hōʻailona paha ia he maikaʻi, ola, hauʻoli a kūpaʻa i kona noho male ʻana.
Ike i ka wahine a ke kaikunane ʻO ke kāne ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine male
No ka wahine i mareʻia,ʻo kaʻikeʻana i ka wahine a ke kaikunāne o kāna kāne ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hauʻoli, ka hauʻoli, a me ka maikaʻi.
Hōʻike kēia hiʻohiʻona i ka pilina paʻa a me ka pilina pili ʻohana ma waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana hoʻokahi.
Aia paha kahi lewa piha i ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli i waena o ka poʻe i komo.
Inā ʻike ka wahine male i ka wahine a ke kaikunāne o kāna kāne e ʻakaʻaka ana ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia e pili ana ke kanaka i nā mea honua a leʻaleʻa me ka manaʻo ʻole i ke ola ma hope.
ʻO ka hihiʻo i kēia hihia e aʻo mai i ka haʻalele ʻana i nā mea ʻuhane a me ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hoihoi i ke ʻano hoʻomana o ke ola.
No ka wahine hoʻokahi i ʻike i ka wahine a ke kaikunāne o kāna kāne ma ka moeʻuhane, ua hoʻohiki kēia hihiʻo i ka nūhou maikaʻi o kāna male kokoke i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
E hōʻike ana hoʻi i ka maikaʻi a me ka ikaika o kāna pilina me ka ʻohana o kāna kāne.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o koʻu kaikoʻeke e hoʻowalewale i kaʻu kāne
- Ka nele o ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a me ka lili:
Ke kuhikuhi nei kekahi mau unuhi ʻōlelo e hōʻike ana i ka pau ʻole o ka hilinaʻi o ka wahine iā ia iho a me ka manaʻo mau o ka lili i ka mea mua.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea mua e hoʻowalewale i kāna kāne e hōʻike paha i ka manaʻo o ka wahine he ʻoi aku ka nani o kāna mea mua ma mua ona a hoʻāla i kona lili. - Pono ka nānā a me ka mālama:
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kāne e honi ana i kahi wahine ʻē aʻe ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka pono o ka wahine i ka nānā a me ka mālama ʻana mai kāna kāne.
Manaʻo paha ka wahine i ka ʻoluʻolu a pono e nānā hou aku i kāna kāne. - ʻO ka launa ʻole a me ka huhū:
ʻO kahi wehewehe ʻē aʻe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka wahine mua e hoʻowalewale i ke kāne e hōʻike ana i ka noho ʻana o ka inaina a me ka inaina ma waena o ka mea moeʻuhane (ka wahine) a me kāna mea mua i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Hiki ke hūnā ʻia nā paio a me nā pilikia ma waena o ka wahine a me ke ʻano o ka mea ma mua. - Ka lili a me ke kaumaha:
Hiki i ka mea moeʻuhane ke manaʻo lili a kaumaha no kēia moeʻuhane.
He nui paha ka hopena o ka pilikanaka a me ka noonoo o keia hihio i ka wahine, no kona manao hooweliweli a kanalua i kona pilina me kana kane. - ʻO ka hoʻoikaika a me ke kuko:
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ke kāne e moe ana me ka wahine a kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke hōʻike i ka makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane (ka wahine a ke kanaka i pili pū me ia) e lanakila i ke kālā a iʻole ke kūlana o ke kāne a kona kaikunāne.
Hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia kēia hiʻohiʻona me ke kuko a me ka makemake i ka waiwai.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻakaʻaka o koʻu mua
- Ka hauʻoli a me ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻakaʻaka o kou mea mua he hōʻailona ia o kona hauʻoli a me ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo.
Hōʻike ka ʻakaʻaka i nā manaʻo o ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, a no laila ʻo kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻihoʻi hou ʻana o kāu pilina me kou mua a me ka noho ʻana o ka ʻike a me ka hauʻoli i ke ola male. - Ka hilinaʻi a me ka palekana: Hiki ke unuhi ʻia ka ʻakaʻaka o kāu mea mua i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka hilinaʻi a me ka palekana ma waena o ʻoe.
ʻO ka heleʻana o kaʻakaʻaka,ʻo ia hoʻi, pili lākou a hoʻomaopopo loa, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i kou pilina paʻa a paʻa. - Hauʻoli ʻohana: ʻO ka moeʻuhane i ka ʻike ʻana i kou kūpuna e ʻakaʻaka ana paha he hōʻailona ia o ka hauʻoli a me ka lokahi o kou ʻohana.
Hōʻike ka ʻakaʻaka i ka hauʻoli a me nā pilina maikaʻi ma waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana, ʻo ia hoʻi ke noho nei ka ʻohana i kahi lewa o ke aloha a me ka leʻaleʻa. - Hoʻopili a me ka hoʻohui ʻana: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻakaʻaka o kāu mea mua e hōʻailona paha i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka pili a me ka hoʻohui ʻana ma waena o ʻoe.
ʻO ka ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia ka hoʻomaopopo a kaʻana like ʻana o ʻolua, a hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ke ʻano o ke kaʻana like a me ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana ma waena o ʻolua. - ʻO ka ʻae ʻana a me ka mahalo: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mea mua e ʻakaʻaka ana paha he hōʻailona ia o ka ʻae a me ka mahalo.
Hiki i ka ʻakaʻaka ke hōʻike i ka ʻae ʻana o ka mea mua iā ʻoe a me kou ʻano a me kona mahalo i kāu mau ʻano maikaʻi, e kōkua ana i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pilina paʻa a kaulike.
ʻIke i ke kaikamahine a koʻu mua ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine male
- ʻO ka hala ʻole o ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka hauʻoli ʻohana: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine ʻōpio a kou kupuna kāne e hōʻike paha i ka pōmaikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli ʻohana.
He hōʻailona paha kēia ʻike no ka hauʻoli a me ka hōʻoluʻolu i kou noho male ʻana, a e hōʻike ana i ka pōmaikaʻi a me nā manawa hauʻoli i ka wā e hiki mai ana. - Makemake no ka makuahine: Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe i ke kaikamahine a kou kupuna kāne i kou male ʻana, hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i kou makemake nui e lilo i makuahine.
Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ka makemake e hoʻokō i nā ʻano manaʻo a me ka hānai ʻana o kou ola a mākaukau e ʻike i ka noho makuahine. - Pilipili a me ka pilina ʻohana: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine a kou kupuna kāne e hōʻike ana paha i kahi pilina pili me nā ʻohana.
Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke wānana i ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i nā pilina ʻohana, a e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ke hoʻokokoke aku ʻoe i nā lālā o kou ʻohana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. - Ke kuleana a me ke kaulike: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine a kou kupuna kāne he hōʻailona paha ia i ka lawe ʻana i ke kuleana a me ke kaulike i ke ola.
Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke manaʻo ma waena o ka makemake e leʻaleʻa i ke ola a me kou mau pono pilikino, a me kāu mau kuleana ʻohana a me nā kuleana o ka home. - Ke hoʻomohala nei i nā pilina: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine a kou kūpuna i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka ulu ʻana o kāu mau pilina pili.
Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ka makemake e hoʻoikaika i ka pilina ʻohana a hoʻonui i ka pōʻai o nā pilina pili i mea nui iā ʻoe. - Manaʻolana a me ka manaʻolana: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine a kou kupuna kāne ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke lilo i hōʻailona o ka manaʻolana a me ka manaʻolana no ka wā e hiki mai ana.
He ʻōlelo paha kēia ʻike iā ʻoe aia nā manawa kūpono a me nā mea hiki i kou ala, a hiki ke hoʻokō i nā pahuhopu a me ka hauʻoli.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ka paʻi ʻana i ka holomua
- I ka ʻike ʻana i kou mea mua e paʻi ana iā ʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane:
Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe e paʻi ana ʻoe i kou mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻailona e hana ʻoe iā ia i kahi lokomaikaʻi.
He hōʻailona kēia ʻike e aʻo a kōkua paha ʻoe i kāu mea ma mua i ke kālā. - I ka ʻike ʻana i kou mua i hahau ʻia e kāu kāne ma ka moeʻuhane:
Inā ʻike ʻoe i loko o kāu moeʻuhane ua hahau kāu kāne i kou mua, hōʻike kēia i ka hewa a me ka hoʻopaʻi.
Hōʻike paha kēia i nā kuʻikahi a i ʻole nā pilikia i kāu pilina. - I ka ʻike ʻana i kou mea mua i hahau ʻia e ka makuahine o kāu kāne ma ka moeʻuhane:
Inā ʻike ka wahine a ke kāne i ka makuahine o kāna kāne e hahau ana i kona mua ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia e pōmaikaʻi ʻo ia iā ia a loaʻa paha kahi pōmaikaʻi iā ia. - Ke ʻike nei ʻoe e paʻi ana i kāu mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane:
Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe e paʻi anaʻoe i kāu mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke manaʻoʻia he pōmaikaʻi.
Ināʻike ka wahine i kāna moeʻuhane e paʻi anaʻo ia i kona mua, e hōʻike ana kēia e aʻo anaʻo ia iā ia a hāʻawi i kāna kōkua ma nā mea he nui.
5. I ka ʻike ʻana i kou mea mua e hahau ana i kahi wahine male:
Inā ʻike ka wahine male i kāna mea mua e hahau ʻia ana e kāna kāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia e hoʻokokoke ana ka mea mua i ka wahine.
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i kahi hakakā ma ka moeʻuhane:
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka hakakā me ka mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane i unuhiʻia he pilina maikaʻiʻole ma waena o nāʻohana.
He hōʻailona paha ia i ke kū ʻana o nā kuʻikahi a i ʻole nā paio e kū mai ana ma ka home.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i kahi hihiʻo ʻO kahi mua i ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai
- He hōʻailona o ka ikaika o ka pilina me kaʻohana o ke kāne:ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai e hōʻike paha i ka ikaika o ka pilina me kaʻohana o kāna kāne.
Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ke kākoʻo ikaika a me ke kōkua mai ka ʻohana a me kahi ʻohana olakino a paʻa. - ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi no ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kōkua mai ke kāne: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi manō hōʻaiʻē ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia no ka wahine hāpai e kōkua ke kāne a hoʻomaopopo iā ia i kēia manawa a i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo mai iā ia ma nā ʻano like ʻole o ke ola. - He hōʻailona o ka hānau maʻalahi: Inā moeʻuhane ka wahine hāpai i kona kupuna, he hōʻailona paha kēia e maʻalahi kona hānau ʻana a ʻaʻohe pilikia.
Hiki i ka wahine ke lanakila i ka luhi o ka hana me ka maʻalahi a me ka maʻalahi, a e hauʻoli ke keiki i ke olakino maikaʻi. - ʻO ka hōʻike o ka pōmaikaʻi a me ke ola: Inā moeʻuhane ka wahine i ka lawe ʻana i kahi hōʻaiʻē, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka hiki ʻana mai o nā pōmaikaʻi a me ka nui o ke ola i ka ʻohana.
Hiki i ka ʻohana ke hauʻoli i nā pōmaikaʻi he nui a me ke ola nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana. - He hōʻailona o ka maikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli i ka noho male ʻana: Inā ʻike ka wahine male i kāna wahine mua i hāpai i ka moeʻuhane a aia lākou i loko o kahi hālāwai hauʻoli a pili pono, e hōʻike paha kēia i ke alo o ka maikaʻi, hauʻoli, ola a me ke kūpaʻa i ke ola male.
He hōʻailona paha kēia ʻike no ka holomua o ka pilina ma waena o nā hoa kāne a me ka nui o ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli i ka ʻohana. - Manaʻolana no ka hānau ʻana i nā keiki maikaʻi: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i koʻu hānau mua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka makemake nui o ka mea moeʻuhane e hānau keiki a hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia me nā hua maikaʻi.
He lono maikaʻi paha kēia moeʻuhane no kona hiki ke hānau keiki kāne a i ʻole ka hānau ʻana o nā keiki i hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia a maikaʻi no ka lehulehu.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane aʻu e hoʻopiʻi nei i koʻu mua
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i koʻu mua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka hakakā a i ʻole ke kaua e hiki mai ana e hoʻopilikia i kou ola.
Ke ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i kou mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane, he ʻōlelo aʻo paha kēia no ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa a i ʻole ka hakakā ma nā pilina pilikino a ʻoihana paha.
Hiki i nā wāhine male ke ʻike iā lākou iho e hoʻopiʻi ana i ko lākou mua ma ka moeʻuhane.
Hiki i kēia wehewehe ʻana ke hōʻike i kekahi hopohopo a i ʻole ʻoluʻolu i ka pilina male.
He mea hoʻomanaʻo paha kēia i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā pono o kekahi.
- Ināʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho e aʻo ana i kou mua ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka nele o ka hilinaʻi āu e hōʻike nei ma kāu mau hana.
Pono paha ʻoe e ʻimi i kahi hoʻonā i kēia pilikia a kūkulu i kahi pilina maikaʻi aʻe me kou mua.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o koʻu mua e hoʻolauleʻa iaʻu
- ʻO ke ʻano o ka holomua ma ka moeʻuhane:
- ʻO ka mua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻailona paha i ka hōʻaiʻē a i ʻole ka hōʻiliʻili ʻana i nā aie.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi hōʻaiʻē ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka pilikia kālā o kēia manawa, akā e hiki mai ke kōkua a e hoʻomaikaʻi nā kūlana.
- ʻO ka holomua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike i ke kūpaʻa o ka pilina male a me ka hauʻoli i ke ola male.
- ʻO ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana me kahi mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane:
- Ināʻike ka wahine male i kona mea mua e hoʻokuʻikahi me ia ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia keʻano o ka hoʻomakaʻana o kahiʻike hou i loko o kona ola, aʻo ia ke kūlana maikaʻi.
- Inā hele mai ka mea mua e kala mai a hōʻoluʻolu i nā mea a pau, hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i ke aloha a me ke aloha i waena o nā ʻohana.
- ʻO ke koʻikoʻi o ka pōʻaiapili o ka moeʻuhane a me nā kikoʻī:
- Pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea mua ma ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pōʻaiapili a me nā kikoʻī o ka moeʻuhane.
- Eia kekahi laʻana, inā hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i ka mea ma mua i kahi kūlana hauʻoli, he hōʻailona paha kēia i ka hauʻoli a me ka maikaʻi o ka mea maoli.
- Ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka male:
- ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hui mua ʻana me ʻoe e hōʻailona paha i kou hopohopo e pili ana i ke kūpaʻa o kāu male i kēia manawa.
- He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane e makemake ʻoe e pakele i nā pilikia o kāu pilina male i kēia manawa.
- Moeuhane a me ka aie:
- Inā ʻike ʻoe i kāu holomua ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia paha ka mea i hōʻiliʻili ai ʻoe i nā aie maoli.
- He mea nui ʻoe e lawe koʻikoʻi i kēia mau ʻaiʻē a hana e hoʻoholo.