ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai ʻoiai e kaʻawale mai ʻoe no nā wahine hoʻokahi

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai ʻoiai lākou e haʻalele iā ʻoe no nā wāhine hoʻokahi, Ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia kekahi o nā hihiʻo e hoʻāla ai i ka manaʻo o nā mea he nui a e noʻonoʻo ai i nā manaʻo i lawe ʻia a me kona ʻano, e hoʻi mai ana me ka maikaʻi? A i ʻole ʻino? Manaʻo paha kekahi poʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka ʻike ʻana i ke kanaka āu i aloha ai ʻoiai ʻo ia i kahi mamao aku, no ka makemake nui i ka mea i aloha ʻia a me ka makemake e hoʻi hou iā ia a hoʻoponopono hou i ke ola me ia, e wehewehe mākou i kēia mau mea a pau ma ka ʻatikala aʻe.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai ʻoiai e kaʻawale mai ʻoe no nā wahine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka āu i aloha ai ʻoiai ʻo ia e kaʻawale mai ou aku no nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika o kona aloha iā ia a me ka hoihoi nui i ka ʻike nui e pili ana iā ia.
• ʻO ka nānāʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane o kāna mea aloha i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka ikaika o kona makemake iā ia a me kāna mau ho'āʻo e hālāwai me ia.
• Ke ʻike ke kaikamahine i kāna mea i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane, akā ua hoʻopilikia a pōʻino iā ia, he hōʻailona kēia o kāna hoʻāʻo e hoʻopaʻi iā ia.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kahi mea āna i aloha ai, ka mea āna i ʻike ʻole ai no ka manawa lōʻihi, e hele ana ma kona alahele, he hōʻike kēia e hui hou ai lāua a paʻa ko lāua ola.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea aloha ma hope o ka haʻalele ʻana e wehewehe ʻia i ka mea nānā e kona manaʻo kaumaha a me ke kaumaha i loaʻa iā ia ma hope o ko lākou kaʻawale ʻana.
• ʻO ke kaikamahine e nānā ana i kāna mea i aloha ai ʻoiai ʻo ia e mamao loa ma ka moeʻuhane a ʻo ia e hoʻopiʻi nei he hōʻailona ia e ʻike ʻia ana ʻo ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia ma hope o ko lāua kaʻawale ʻana.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai ʻoiai ʻo ia e haʻalele iā ʻoe no nā wahine hoʻokahi e Ibn Sirin

• Ua wehewehe ka mea ʻepekema ʻo Ibn Sirin i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kanaka hoʻokahi āna i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane, a ua mamao loa ʻo ia mai ke kaumaha i loaʻa i nā kānaka ʻelua i ko lāua pilina.
• ʻO ka mea moeʻuhane eʻike ana i kāna hoa kāne mua ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hikiʻole ke hoʻopoina a mamao aku iā ia a me ka ikaika o kona makemake iā ia.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai i hoʻopaʻahaoʻia ma ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o kahi wahine hoʻokahi e ʻike ana i kahi mea āna i aloha ai i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka kūleʻa a me ka maikaʻi e loaʻa iā ia ma kāna ola hana a ʻepekema.
• ʻO ke kaikamahine e ʻike ana i kahi mea āna i aloha ai i loko o ka hale paʻahao ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nui o ke ola a me ka waiwai waiwai nui i loaʻa iā ia i loko o kona ola a hauʻoli me ia.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kāna mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane i hoʻopaʻahao ʻia a lanakila ʻo ia i ka puka ʻana i waho, a laila he hōʻailona kēia e hiki ai ʻo ia i kāna mea i makemake ai a hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia ma ka hana a komo i kahi kūlana koʻikoʻi.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane o kāna mea aloha i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā hopohopo a me nā pilikia i loaʻa iā ia.
• Inā ʻike ka mea hihiʻo e paʻa ana ʻo ia i ka lima o kahi mea āna i aloha ai i loko o ka hale paʻahao, ma kāna hihiʻo, he hōʻike kēia o ka ikaika o kona ʻano a me kona makemake ʻole e hoʻololi i nā lula a me nā ʻano o kona ola.
• No ke kaikamahine e ʻike ana e ʻaʻahu ana ʻo ia i nā kapu like me kāna e ʻaʻahu aiا ه ʻO ka mea i hoʻopaʻa ʻia he hōʻailona ia e hoʻokau ʻia ʻo ia i nā pilikia, nā pilikia a me nā pilikia ma muli o kēia kanaka.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e nānā iā ʻoe no nā wahine hoʻokahi

• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi wahine hoʻokahi āna i aloha ai e nānā iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻike ia o ka hauʻoli a me ka maikaʻi e hiki koke mai ana iā ia.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i kahi kaikamahine e ʻike i kāna keikikāne e nānā ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka lohe ʻana i ka nūhou maikaʻi, e like me ka lā kokoke o kā lāua hoʻopaʻa ʻana.
• Ināʻike ka mea moeʻuhane e nānā ana kāna ipo iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane i kona wā e huhū ai, he hōʻailona kēia o ka nohoʻana o nā pilikia a me nā kuʻikahi ma waena o lākou, kahi e hoʻokaʻawale ai i ka mamao a me ka kaʻawale.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kahi mea aloha e nānā iā ia ma kāna moeʻuhane a ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia, a laila hōʻailona kēia i ka holomua a me ka kūleʻa e loaʻa iā ia i ka wā e hiki mai ana, a me ke kiʻekiʻe o kona kūlana ma ka hana.
• wehewehe ʻIke i kahi mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane No ke kaikamahine, noʻonoʻo nui ʻo ia iā ia a pono ʻo ia iā ia i nā manawa a pau.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi؟

• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kaikamahine ma ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āna i aloha ai he hōʻike ia o kona aloha nui iā ia a me kona noʻonoʻo nui ʻana i kona ola.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka wahine hoʻokahi āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane a e ʻakaʻaka ana ʻo ia iā ia he hōʻailona ia o ka lohe ʻana i ka lono hoʻohiki a me ka nalowale ʻana o nā hopohopo a me nā pilikia e hoʻopilikia i ke ola.
• Ināʻike ka mea moeʻuhane i kāna mea aloha e komo ana i kona hale ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia o ka lā kokoke o kā lāua hoʻopaʻaʻana.
•  Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine i kahi mea āna i aloha ai e haʻalele iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila hōʻailona kēia i kona ʻike ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā kaumaha ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻomanawanui.
• Ke ʻike ka mea ʻike maka i kāna mea aloha i ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike ia ua hoʻi hou lākou.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kanaka hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana ua make kāna mea aloha, ʻoiai he hōʻike kēia o ka wahaheʻe a me ka hoʻopunipuni āna i hōʻike ʻia ai mai kēia kanaka, no laila ua ʻōlelo ʻia ka mea moeʻuhane e pili kokoke i ke Akua a e pule no ka pono o ke kūlana a pale aku i ka pōʻino mai iā ia.

ʻIke i ka mea aloha ma hope o ka kaʻawale ʻana i ka moeʻuhane no nā wahine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ka nānāʻana i ka mea aloha ma hope o ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana i ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi, he hōʻike ia o ka ikaika o kona aloha iā ia a me kona piliʻana iā ia a me kona hikiʻole ke hoʻopoina iā ia.
• ʻO ka hihiʻo o ke kaikamahine i kāna mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke kaumaha a me ka pōʻino i loaʻa iā ia ma hope o ko lākou kaʻawale ʻana.
• ʻO ka mea moeʻuhane e ʻike ana i kāna hoa kāne mua ma ka moeʻuhane a ke hoʻopiʻi nei ʻo ia iā lākou he hōʻailona ia o ka pōʻino noʻonoʻo i loaʻa iā ia ma hope o ko lākou kaʻawale ʻana a me kāna hoʻāʻo e hoʻi iā ia i ka wā hiki.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea maʻi āna i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nui o nā pilikia a me nā pilikia e kū nei i kona ola, a he paʻakikī ke hoʻoponopono iā lākou.
• Ināʻike ke kaikamahine i ka maleʻana o kāna mea punahele ma ka moeʻuhane ma hope o ko lākou kaʻawaleʻana, a laila e hōʻike anaʻo ia e hōʻikeʻia i nā pilikia a me nā paio i loko o kona ola.
• ʻO ka mea ʻike i ka mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane he ʻelemakule, he hōʻailona kēia o kona hiki ʻole ke hoʻokaʻawale iā ia a me ka makemake e hoʻokuʻikahi.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kāna mea aloha aloha ma ke ʻano he expatriate, hōʻike kēia i ka loli o kona kūlana a me ka ulu ʻana no ka maikaʻi koke.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kanaka aloha iaʻu a alualu mai iaʻu no ka mea hookahi

• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi kanaka aloha iaʻu a ke alualu nei iaʻu ma ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi e wehewehe ana e ho'āʻo nei kēia kanaka e hoʻokokoke iā ia aʻike iā ia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane, he kāne aloha iā ia a hahai mau iā ia i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka ola e hiki mai ana a me ka hoihoi e loaʻa iā ia mai ia mea.
• Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine i kahi kāne ʻōpio i aloha iā ia a hahai iā ia, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka lohe ʻana i ka lono hoʻohiki a e hoʻopalau koke ʻo ia iā ia, ke ʻae ke Akua.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka holo kaʻa me kahi mea āu i aloha ai no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi kaikamahine e holo ana i ke kaʻa me kāna mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka pauʻana o ka hopohopo, ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i kaʻeha, a me ka hoʻopauʻiaʻana o nā pilikia a me nā pilikia a pau e pilikia ai kona pilikia.
• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane e holo ana i ke kaʻa me kāna ipo, a uaʻoluʻoluʻo ia i kāna moeʻuhane,ʻo ia hoʻi ka hoʻololiʻana i kāna mau hana i mea e hauʻoli ai.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane e holo ana ma ke kaʻa me kahi mea āna i aloha ai a no kona ʻohana he mea hōʻike ia ua noi ʻo ia iā ia a hauʻoli ʻo ia me ia a ua kūpaʻa a palekana ma hope ona.
• Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine i kāna kāne kāne e hoʻokele wikiwiki ana i ke kaʻa, a laila hopohopo ʻo ia, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka puka ʻana o nā pilikia ma waena o lākou, kahi e hoʻokaʻawale ai, a ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ia e pule nui a ʻimi i ke kala ʻana.

Keʻike nei i kaʻu kiʻi me ka mea aloha i ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi wahine hoʻokahi me kāna mea aloha ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana ua paʻa loaʻo ia me ia, pili iā ia, a makemake e mare koke iā ia.
• ʻO kaʻu kiʻi me ka mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka mea ʻike e hōʻike ana i ka maʻalahi a me ka holomua ma nā wahi āpau o ke ola, inā ʻepekema a hana paha.
• Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane e haehae ana ʻo ia i kāna kiʻi me kāna ipo ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka hana hewa a me nā hana ʻino ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a pono ʻo ia e hoʻokokoke i ko kākou Haku a hoʻōki i ka hana hewa a me ka mihi ʻoiaʻiʻo.
• ʻO ka mea i ʻike e kiʻi ana ʻo ia i ke kiʻi me kāna mea punahele ma kāna moeʻuhane, a laila hōʻailona kēia i kāna koho ʻana i kahi kāne maikaʻi a me ka hoʻomana e hoʻolauna koke iā ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kāu ex-boyfriend nalo iā ʻoe

• ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka makemake o ka mea aloha mua iāʻoe no ka wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i ka ho'āʻo e hoʻokokoke aku iā ia, ka hikiʻole ke hoʻopoina iā ia, a me ka makemake e hoʻi hou iā ia.
• ʻO ka mea moeʻuhane e ʻike ana i kāna hoa kāne mua me ke kaumaha a me ke kaumaha i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nui o kona nalo ʻana iā ia a me ka minamina ma hope o ko lākou kaʻawale ʻana a me ka makemake nui iā ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe

• ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi kanaka āu e aloha nei e kamaʻilio pū meʻoe no nā wāhine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli, ka hauʻoli a me ke ola e hauʻoli nei i kona ola.
• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane me kahi mea āna i aloha ai e kamaʻilio me ia ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona holomua, holomua, a hiki koke i kāna mau pahuhopu, ke makemake ke Akua.
• Ināʻike kekahi kaikamahine i kekahi mea aloha e kamaʻilio pū me ia ma kāna moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia o kona hoʻokiʻekiʻeʻana ma ka hana a me kona hikiʻana i kahi kūlana kiʻekiʻe e hauʻoli aiʻo ia a kōkua iā ia e hoʻonui i kona kūlana kaiaulu.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka wahine hoʻokahi āna i aloha ai e kamaʻilio pū me ia e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika o kona pili ʻana iā ia a me kona makemake mau iā ia e noho pū me ia.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kamaʻilioʻana me kahi mea āu i aloha ai no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ke kaikamahine a kāna keikikāne e kamaʻilio pū ana me ia ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona aloha e kamaʻilio me ia a me kona makemake e hālāwai me ia.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea āna i aloha ai a e uē ana ʻo ia ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i kā lāua mau hana, ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kā lāua pilina no ka maikaʻi, a me ka lā kokoke o kā lāua male ʻana, ke ʻae ke Akua.
• Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane e kamaʻilio ana ʻo ia me kāna kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o kona makemake e kamaʻilio me ia a haʻi aku iā ia i nā pilikia he nui i loko ona.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka moe ʻana me kāu mea aloha no ka mea hookahi

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka moe ʻana me kahi mea āu i aloha ai no nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana ua hōʻoluʻolu ʻo ia a hauʻoli loa ma hope o kēia kanaka i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
• ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi kaikamahine e hiamoe ana ma nā lima o kāna mea i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane, a uaʻoluʻoluʻo ia, e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika o ko lāua aloha i kekahi i kekahi a me ke kūpaʻa o ko lāua ola.
• I ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane e hiamoe ana me kāna mea punahele ma ka moeʻuhane a ua hōʻoluʻolu ʻole ʻo ia, e hōʻike ana kēia i ka nalowale o ka manaʻo palekana ma hope ona.

E ʻike hou ana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane no ka mea hookahi

• ʻO ka hihiʻo o ka mea moeʻuhane i ka mea āna i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike mau ana i kona manaʻo pinepine iā ia a me kona hopohopo mau i ka ʻike ʻana i kāna nūhou a me nā kikoʻī o kona ola.
• ʻO ka nānāʻana i kahi kanaka āu i aloha nui ai i ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi i keʻano o ke aloha hoʻokahi, he hōʻike ia o ka makemake e kamaʻilio me ia a pili iā ia.
• No ka ʻike hou ʻana o ke kaikamahine i kahi mea āna i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane ʻoiai ʻo ia he malihini, he hōʻailona kēia o ka ikaika o kona makemake e hālāwai me ia a noʻonoʻo nui i ka lā o ko lākou hālāwai.
• ʻO ke kaikamahine i ʻike i kāna keikikāne ma ka moeʻuhane i nā manawa he nui a ua huhū ʻo ia he hōʻike ia e hōʻeha ʻia ʻo ia a ʻino i nā lā e hiki mai ana.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e puliki ana i kahi āu i aloha ai no ka mea hookahi

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻapo ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai no nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i ka maikaʻi, hoʻomaha, a me ka hauʻoli kokoke e loaʻa koke iā ʻoe, ke ʻae ke Akua.
• ʻO kahi kaikamahine e ʻike ana i kāna keikikāne e ʻapo ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻike ia o ka ikaika o ko lāua pilina me kekahi a me kā lāua paʻa ma muli o ke aloha a me ke aloha.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane e ʻapo i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane a ʻo ia e uwē ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hōʻike ana i ka pau ʻana o ka ʻeha a me ke kaumaha a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā pilikia i kū i kona ola.
• I ka wā e ʻike ai kahi kaikamahine i kāna kāne kāne e apo ana iā ia no ka manawa lōʻihi i ka moeʻuhane, ʻoiai ke ʻano mehana, he hōʻailona kēia o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kā lāua pilina no ka maikaʻi.
• Ināʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane i kahi mea āna i aloha ai e apo ana iā ia a hōʻoluʻoluʻole, he hōʻike kēia ua loheʻo ia i nā lono maikaʻiʻole e hōʻeha ai i kona pōʻino a me ke kaumaha i kona ola.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopalau ʻana i kahi kanaka hoʻokahi mai kahi āu i aloha ai

• No nā wāhine hoʻokahi, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana o kahi mea āna i aloha ai, ʻo ia hoʻi ka lohe ʻana i ka nūhou hauʻoli e hoʻololi koke ʻia kona kūlana no ka maikaʻi koke, ke ʻae ke Akua.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana o ke kaikamahine ua hoʻopalau ʻia ʻo ia me kāna ipo, he hōʻailona ia ua kokoke mai kāna lā male.
• Ināʻike ka mea moeʻuhane i ka hoʻopaʻaʻana ma ka moeʻuhaneʻoiaiʻaʻoleʻo ia i aloha i kekahi, he hōʻailona kēia e loli koke ana kona kūlana a hoʻolaunaʻiaʻo ia i kahi kanaka maikaʻi e hauʻoli aiʻo ia.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kāna mea i aloha ai e noi ana iā ia ma kāna moeʻuhane a hauʻoli ʻo ia, a laila hōʻailona kēia i kona holomua i kona ola a hiki koke i kāna makemake.
• ʻO kāna ʻike ʻana i kāna mea aloha e hoʻopalau ana me ia, a ua kaumaha ʻo ia a hopohopo i ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i ka nalowale o ka manaʻolana i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pahuhopu.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai ʻoiai lākou e haʻalele iā ʻoe

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka āu i aloha ai ʻoiai ʻo ia e haʻalele ana no nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i ka ulu ʻana o kā lākou pilina no ka maikaʻi o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me kāna hoʻāʻo mau e hoʻi iā ia.
• ʻO ka wahine male e ʻike ana i kahi mea āna i aloha ai a ʻaʻole lāua i hui no ka manawa lōʻihi he hōʻike ia o ka makemake nui iā ia a me ka makemake nui e kamaʻilio me ia.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane ʻoiai ʻo ia i kahi mamao loa he hōʻike ia o ke kaumaha a me ka pilikia ma muli o ka hiki ʻole ke poina a me ka makemake e hoʻi iā ia.
• Inā ʻike ʻia ka mea aloha mua o ke kaikamahine ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia o ka ikaika o kona aloha iā ia a me kāna hoʻāʻo e hūnā i kona mau manaʻo i loko ona.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea aloha ʻole iā ʻoe?

• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai ʻaʻole aloha iā ʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka hopohopo e ʻike koke ʻia ka mea moeʻuhane.
• ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka mea moeʻuhane āna i aloha ai ʻoiai ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ia i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e ʻike ʻia ʻo ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia a me ke alo o nā kuleana paʻakikī e hoʻopau koke.
• Inā ʻike ka mea nona ka moeʻuhane i kahi mea āna i aloha ai ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i aloha iā ia, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka puka ʻana mai o nā pale a me nā pilikia e hiki ʻole ai iā ia ke hoʻokō i kāna mau makemake, kahi e nalowale ai ka manaʻolana a me ka makemake ʻole i nā mea āpau. .