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ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e puliki ana i kahi huakaʻi
E hōʻike ana i ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi pōʻino a i ʻole pōʻino: ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka puliki ʻana i kahi huakaʻi kaumaha e hōʻike ana e loaʻa ana ka hugger i kahi pōʻino a i ʻole ka pōʻino i kāna huakaʻi. He ʻōlelo aʻo paha kēia ʻike no nā pilikia a me nā pilikia a ka mea pili.
Hōʻike manaʻolana: Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka ʻapo ʻana i kahi huakaʻi kaumaha e hōʻike ana i ka manaolana. He hōʻailona paha ka moeʻuhane e loaʻa ana ka manaʻolana e hoʻomaikaʻi ke kūlana a e pau ke kaumaha a me ka pilikia o kēia manawa.
He hōʻailona o ke aloha a me ka hoʻomaopopo: ʻO kekahi wehewehe ʻana o kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ke aloha a me ka ʻike ma waena o nā kānaka. Inā ʻo ka mea i puliki ʻia he kanaka āu i aloha nui ai a ʻo ia hoʻi nā manaʻo like me ʻoe, a laila ʻo ka moeʻuhane paha he hōʻailona ia o kahi hoʻololi manaʻo ikaika ma waena o ʻoukou.
He hōʻailona o ka naʻauao: ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka pūliki ʻana i ke kanaka hele ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka naʻauao i loaʻa i ka mea moeʻuhane. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka hiki o ke kanaka ke mālama pono i nā mea i kēlā manawa.
Loaʻa i nā mea maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana: Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane iā ia iho e apo ana i kahi huakaʻi a ʻike ʻia i ke ʻano o ke kaumaha a me ka pilikia, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane paha he hōʻailona ia ua pau ka pilikia a ke kanaka e hele nei a ke noi nei ʻo ia i kōkua. He hōʻailona paha ka moeʻuhane e hiki mai ana nā mea maikaʻi i kona ola i kēlā manawa.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e puliki ana i kekahi kanaka aʻu i ʻike ai
Ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mālama a me ke kākoʻo: ʻO ka moeʻuhane ʻana i ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi āu i ʻike ai e hōʻike ana ua mālama nui ʻoe i kahi kanaka kikoʻī i kou ola. Manaʻo nui ʻoe iā ia a makemake ʻoe e kākoʻo iā ia. Hōʻike kēia moeʻuhane i kou makemake e kū ma kona ʻaoʻao a hāʻawi i ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo i kekahi pilikia e kū ai ʻo ia. He hōʻike ia o kou pili ʻana a me ka pilina paʻa me kēlā kanaka.
ʻO ka pono o ka puni a me ka nānā ʻana: Inā moeʻuhane kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi e puliki i kekahi, he hōʻailona paha kēia o kona makemake i nā manaʻo a me ka nānā ʻana mai nā poʻe kokoke iā ia. ʻImi ʻo ia i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka palekana a makemake ʻo ia e mālama a aloha ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. He mau hōʻailona paha kēia e makemake ʻo ia i ka pilina a me ka male.
ʻO nā wānana male: No ka wahine hoʻokahi, ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kahi mea āna i ʻike ai, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o kona makemake e mare i kēia kanaka, inā he ʻohana a he hoa hana paha. Inā uē ka wahine hoʻokahi i ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pilina pili me kēia kanaka a e hoʻomau ʻia ka pilina no ka manawa lōʻihi e like me ka manawa puliki i ka moeʻuhane.
Paʻa kālā: ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi pūliki no ke kāne e hōʻike ana i kona kūlana kālā maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole ka nele o ke kālā a me kona manaʻo kaumaha a me ka huhū. He mea hoʻomanaʻo paha kēia moeʻuhane i ke kanaka i ke koʻikoʻi o ka mālama pono ʻana i kāna mau hana kālā a me ka mālama pono.
Ke komo ʻana i kahi pilina pili: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi āu i ʻike ai e hōʻike ana paha i kou makemake e komo i kahi pilina pili me kēia kanaka i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Loaʻa paha kahi manawa kūpono no nā makemake like a me ka launa pū ʻana ma waena o ʻoukou. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kou makemake nui i kēia kanaka.
He hōʻailona o ke olakino a me ka hauʻoli: Ua manaʻo ʻo Ibn Sirin, ka mea akamai i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane, ʻo ka puliki ʻana i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka lōʻihi a me ke olakino maikaʻi. Hoʻopili ʻia ka hugging me ka hoʻohou ʻana i nā ʻāpana koko, e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻohou o ke ola a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā poʻe i kahi ʻoi aku ka lokahi a me ka ʻoluʻolu. Hoʻopili pū ʻia ka hugging me nā manaʻo leʻaleʻa a me kahi kūlana noʻonoʻo maikaʻi, e hoʻonui ʻia me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka puliki ʻana i ka moeʻuhane.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e puliki ana i kahi āu i aloha ai
E hōʻike ana i ka loli a me ka male: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai a me ka uē ʻana he wānana ia no ka loli ʻana o kou ola a me kāu male ʻana i kahi kanaka hoʻomana a hanohano. E hōʻike ana paha e ola ʻoe i kahi ola male hauʻoli piha i ke aloha a me ka mahalo.
Hōʻike i nā pono o loko: ʻO ka puliki ʻana i kahi mea āu i ʻike ʻole ai ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kou mau manaʻo i loko a me kou pono no ka male ʻana a me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana. Pono paha ʻoe i kekahi e amo i nā kuleana o ke ola me ʻoe a noho pū me kou ʻaoʻao.
ʻO ke aloha a me ke aloha: ʻO nā hugs i loko o ka moeʻuhane i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ke aloha ma waena o nā kānaka ʻelua. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kahi pilina ikaika a me nā manaʻo ʻoiaʻiʻo ma waena o ʻoe a me ka mea āu e ʻapo nei a apo.
Lawe mai i ka manaʻolana a me nā pōmaikaʻi: ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka puliki ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai, ʻo ia ke ʻano e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maikaʻi, nā pōmaikaʻi, a me ke ola nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana o kou ola. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke lilo i hōʻailona maikaʻi no kou wā e hiki mai ana.
Hōʻike o ka hoʻomaopopo a me ke aloha: ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi āu i aloha ai a honi iā lākou i loko o ka moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻailona i ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻike ma waena o ʻoukou. Hōʻike kēia moe i ka ikaika o ka pilina a me nā manaʻo hohonu i loaʻa iā ʻoe me kēlā kanaka.
Ka mālama a me ke kākoʻo: ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi āu i ʻike ai he manaʻo nui ʻoe i ko lākou ʻano a noʻonoʻo mau iā ia. Makemake paha ʻoe e kū pū me ia a hāʻawi iā ia i ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo.
ʻIke i kahi huakaʻi ma ka moeʻuhane
ʻO ka hoʻi ʻana o kahi huakaʻi: Inā ma kāu moeʻuhane e ʻike ʻoe i kahi kanaka pili e hoʻi mai ana mai kahi huakaʻi a i ʻole hoʻi i ke pio ʻana, he wānana paha kēia e hoʻi ana kēia kanaka i kou ola maoli. He nūhou maikaʻi paha kēia a i ʻole he hōʻailona o ka holomua ma kahi pahuhopu āu e ʻimi nei.
Loaʻa i nā pahuhopu: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka huakaʻi e hoʻi mai ana ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi pahuhopu nui āu e ʻimi nei no ka manawa lōʻihi. Ua hoʻoikaika nui paha ʻoe e hoʻokō i kēia pahuhopu, a ke hōʻike nei kēia moeʻuhane iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e makehewa kāu mau hoʻoikaika ʻana a kokoke ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāu mea i makemake ai.
Hoʻohana a aloha paha: Inā pili a aloha paha ka mea e hele ana ma ka moeʻuhane iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona maikaʻi paha kēia o ka wā e hiki mai ana a me kahi hālāwai hauʻoli ma waena o ʻoe. ʻO ka moeʻuhane ma kēia ala ke hōʻailona paha i ka nani o ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i nā pilina manaʻo ma waena o ʻoukou.
Manaʻoʻiʻo i ke Akua a me ka loli: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka e hele ana ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka manaʻoʻiʻo ikaika o ka mea moeʻuhane i ke Akua a me kāna ʻano i ka maikaʻi a me ka loli. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hoʻoikaika i ke kanaka e hoʻokō i kāna mau pahuhopu a me kāna mau makemake a hoʻoikaika i ka holomua a me ka loli maikaʻi i kona ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e puliki ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai, mamao loa mai iā ʻoe
He hōʻailona o ka ikaika a me ka pilina pili: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka apo ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai i kahi mamao aku mai ou aku paha e hōʻike i ka ikaika o ka pilina e hoʻohui pū ai iā ʻoe, a me ke ʻano o ka pono like no kēlā me kēia. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka pilina paʻa a me ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe a me kēia kanaka, ʻoiai ʻo kona hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nui o ka mahalo a me ke aloha ma waena o ʻoe.
ʻO ka hōʻailona o ke aloha: ʻO ka puliki ʻana a i ʻole ka ʻapo ʻana i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ke aloha, ke aloha a me ka maluhia. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo ikaika no kēia kanaka mamao, makemake ʻoe iā ia a pono ʻoe e hoʻokokoke hou iā ia.
Loaʻa i nā pahuhopu a me nā moeʻuhane: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai ma kahi mamao aku e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ʻana mai o nā hanana hauʻoli i kou ola a me ka hoʻokō ʻana o kāu mau pahuhopu a me kāu mau moeʻuhane. He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane e neʻe ana ʻoe i kahi pae o ka hoʻomohala nui a me ka kūleʻa, a hiki ke hōʻike i kou manaʻo pili i kahi kanaka i hoʻoikaika ʻia kona mau pono a me ka hoʻomana.
ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi o ke ola nui: Ua ʻae ka poʻe akamai i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka poli o kahi mea āu e aloha ai ma kahi mamao aku iā ʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane he lono maikaʻi paha ia no ka loaʻa ʻana o ke ola nui i nā manawa he nui. Hiki i ka puliki ke hōʻailona i ka pōmaikaʻi a me ka hopena maikaʻi ma waena o ʻoe a me kēia kanaka ma nā wahi like ʻole o ke ola.
Ka mālama a me ka noʻonoʻo: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai kahi mamao loa mai ou aku e hōʻike ana i kou manaʻo nui iā lākou a noʻonoʻo nui iā lākou. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kou mākaukau a me kou makemake e kū me ia a kākoʻo iā ia i ke ola.
ʻIke i ka huakaʻi e hoʻi mai ana ma ka moeʻuhane
Hoʻokō i nā makemake: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka huakaʻi e hoʻi mai ana ma ka moeʻuhane paha ke ʻano o ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā makemake a me nā makemake. He hōʻailona paha kēia no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka kūleʻa a me ka hauʻoli i kāu ʻoihana a pilikino paha.
Mihi a me ka loli: E hōʻike ana kēia hihiʻo i kou makemake e mihi a mihi i nā hana āu i hana ai ma mua. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke makemake nui e hoʻololi i kou nohona, e neʻe i ke ala pololei, a haʻalele i nā hewa a me nā lawehala.
Hoʻololi i ka hana: ʻO ke ʻano o kahi kanaka huakaʻi ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka loli ʻana o ka hana a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi manawa hou. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kahi manawa hou o ka holomua ʻoihana a me ka pōmaikaʻi.
ʻO ka hōʻea ʻana o ka nūhou maikaʻi: Inā hauʻoli ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi huakaʻi ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka hōʻea ʻana mai o ka nūhou maikaʻi a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ka manawa e holomua a hoʻokō paha i kāu mau pahuhopu.
Hoʻololi i ka pilina: Inā ʻoe he kaʻawale, hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i kou pilina me kahi kanaka huakaʻi a me ka nui o kou aloha a inaina paha iā ia. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona o ka mea hele ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i kahi hoʻololi i nā pilina pilikino a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā ʻano aloha.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi e hakakā pū me ia
ʻO ka hoʻolauleʻa a me ka hoʻolauleʻa: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pūliki ʻana i kahi kanaka āu e hakakā nei he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hiki ke hoʻokuʻikahi a me ke kuʻikahi ma waena o ʻoukou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kou makemake subconscious e hoʻihoʻi i ka pilina a hoʻopau i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma waena o ʻoukou.
ʻO ka makemake no ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo: ʻO ka puliki moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o kou pono no ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoia. Hiki i kēia moe ke hōʻailona i kou makemake e loaʻa ka maluhia o loko a mihi i nā hewa a me nā hewa.
Ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ka pilina: Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka mea hakakā e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻokuʻikahi a ʻae ʻole i ka pūliki ʻana, hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka ulu ʻana o ke kuʻikahi a me ka huhū nui e loaʻa ai nā hopena weliweli. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka pono e makaʻala a haʻalele i nā pilikia pilikia.
ʻO ka hōʻailona maikaʻi: ʻO ka puliki ʻana i kekahi mea e hakakā nei me ʻoe he hōʻailona maikaʻi a he hōʻailona o nā mea maikaʻi e hiki mai ana. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā manawa hou, nā manawa hauʻoli, a me ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e puliki ana i kekahi me ka uē
He hōʻailona o ka nalo ʻana a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana: ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻapo ʻana i kekahi a me ka uē ʻana paha ke manaʻo nei ʻoe e minamina i kēia kanaka a makemake ʻoe e hālāwai me ia me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Pono paha e kamaʻilio a hoʻokokoke aku iā ia me ka naʻau.
ʻO ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka palekana: Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka apo ʻana o kou makuakāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻailona i ka hauʻoli, palekana, a me ka maluhia āu e pono ai i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hoʻomanaʻo i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kākoʻo a me ka palekana.
Nā pilina paʻa: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka apo ʻana o kekahi mea āu i ʻike ai ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka pilina ikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika i loaʻa iā ʻoe me kēia kanaka. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kou hopohopo nui e pili ana i kona kūlana a me kou makemake e kōkua a kākoʻo iā ia.
Hoʻokuʻu i nā manaʻo: Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe i ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi a me ka uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o nā manaʻo a me ka hiki ke hōʻike iā lākou me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ke ākea. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻailona maikaʻi i ka ikaika o ka pilina a me ka paʻa o ka naʻau.
Ka nele i ka pilina pili pili: Ke moeʻuhane ke kanaka i ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi kanaka āna i ʻike ai a uē paha, he hōʻailona paha kēia o kona nele i nā ʻano manaʻo i loko o kona ola. Pono ka hoihoi i ke kūkulu ʻana a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā pilina manaʻo ikaika e loaʻa ai ka hauʻoli pilikino.