Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kaikunāne pepehi i kona kaikuahine, He nui ka poʻe o mākou e ʻike i ka hihiʻo o ka pepehi kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane, a i ʻole ke hana hewa ʻana, akā nui nā nīnau e pili ana i ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine. A i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka pane o kēlā nīnau, ua ʻike mākou i ka ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o nā mea hoʻopuka i kā lākou wehewehe ʻana, a ua ʻokoʻa nā manaʻo ma waena o ka mea mahalo a me ka mea hoʻohewa, e like me kā mākou e ʻike ai ma ka ʻatikala aʻe.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikuahine
ʻOkoʻa ka wehewehe ʻana o ka poʻe akamai i ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine, no laila, ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha ke ʻike mākou i nā manaʻo like ʻole penei:
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika o ke aloha ma waena o lākou a me ke aloha maoli.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha ʻo ia e hoʻomalu iā ia a kau i ke koʻikoʻi noʻonoʻo iā ia.
- Manaʻo nā psychologists ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia kekahi o nā manaʻo pilikino a me ka hoʻomalu ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā hopohopo o ke ola ma luna o ka mea moeʻuhane i kēia manawa.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine e Ibn Sirin
Ua ʻōlelo ʻia e Ibn Sirin ma ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine, me nā ʻano like ʻole mai kekahi manaʻo a i kekahi, e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia ma lalo nei.
- ʻO ka wahine hoʻokahi e ʻike ana i kona kaikunāne e pepehi ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ke noi ʻana o kekahi iā ia, akā hōʻole ʻo ia.
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikuahine e hōʻike ana i ke kaumaha a me ka hopohopo e hoʻomalu iā ia ma muli o nā pilikia a puni ia.
- ʻO ke kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kāna kaikuahine male ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻolauleʻa ma waena o kāna kāne a me kāna kāne i kahi paio.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikuahine me ka pahi
- Ua wehewehe ʻo Ibn Sirin i ka hihiʻo o ke kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine me ka pahi e hōʻike ana i ka puka ʻana o nā hakakā ma waena o lākou i hiki i ka ʻāina.
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikuahine me ka pahi e hōʻike ana i kona hewa iā ia.
- ʻOiai ua manaʻo kekahi poʻe naʻauao ʻo ke kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine me ka pahi ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia kekahi o nā hihiʻo hoʻohiki e hiki mai ana nā pōmaikaʻi he nui i ke kaikuahine, inā ma kona ola pilikino, ʻoihana a ʻoihana paha.
- A ʻo ka wahine hemo i ʻike ma kāna moeʻuhane ua pepehi kona kaikunāne iā ia me ka pahi, he hōʻailona ia e kū nei ʻo ia ma kona ʻaoʻao i loko o nā pilikia a me nā kuʻikahi āna e kū nei me kāna kāne mua a hiki i kona hoʻopau ʻana a hoʻihoʻi ʻia kona mau pono.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikuahine me ka pū
ʻIke mākou i kahi ʻaelike nui i waena o nā mea unuhi nui o nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hihiʻo o ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine me ka pu panapana, e lawe ana i nā manaʻo hoʻomaikaʻi he nui, ʻo ka mea nui o ia mau mea:
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikuahine me ka pū e hōʻike ana i kona inoa maikaʻi i waena o nā kānaka, kona ʻano maikaʻi, a he kaikamahine maikaʻi ʻo ia me ka pono a me ka hoʻomana.
- Ināʻike ka mea moeʻuhane e hāpai anaʻo ia i kona kaikuahine me ka pū ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila, he lono maikaʻi kēia e loaʻa iā ia kahiʻoihana hanohano e kūpono i kona mau akamai a me konaʻike e like me kona makemake.
- ʻO ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikuahine me ka pū i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka ola nui o ka mea moeʻuhane, ke ola ʻoluʻolu, nā kumu hana he nui, a me ka loaʻa kālā i mua ona.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana i ke kaikunāne I kona kaikuahine
- 'Ōleloʻo Ibn Sirin,ʻo ka pepehiʻana i ke kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane he hihiʻo hōʻino ia e hōʻike ana i ka ponoʻole i ka mea i pepehiʻia.
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine e pili ana i ka hemo ʻana o nā pilina pili.
- Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane e pepehi ana ʻo ia i kona kaikuahine me ka pahi ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha ia e lawe ʻia ana kāna mau kuleana me ka ikaika.
- I kekahi mau hihia, ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana i ka pepehi ʻana i ke kaikuahine ma ka moeʻuhane he mea hoʻohālikelike no ka male ʻana a me ka male kokoke, ʻoiai inā ʻo ia ka male.
- ʻO ka mea i ʻike ma ka moeʻuhane e pepehi ana ʻo ia a ʻoki i ke poʻo o kona kaikuahine, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ka pāpā ʻana iā ia me nā ʻōlelo ʻino a hōʻeha i kona hanohano.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikuahine i kona kaikunāne
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kaikuahine e pepehi ana i kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke kōkua ʻana iā ia.
- ʻO ke kaikuahine e pepehi ana i kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a me nā ʻōlelo aʻo iā ia i loko o kahi pilikia āna e hele nei.
- 'Ōlelo kekahi poʻe naʻauao, ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikuahine i kona kaikunāne e hōʻike ana i kona pono no ke kākoʻo ʻana mai iā ia.
- Aka, ina ua hapai ka mea nana i ike i kona pepehi ana i kona kaikunane ma ka moeuhane, alaila, he hoailona keia o ka hanau ana i ke keiki kane i like kona ano me ia.
Ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikuahine e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine
- Inā he mau manaʻo like ʻole ma waena o nā kaikuahine ʻelua, a ʻike kekahi o lākou e pepehi ana i kekahi, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka pau ʻana o nā pilikia ma waena o lāua a me ka hoʻolauleʻa.
- Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Sheikh Al-Nabulsi, ʻo ke kaikuahine e hele nei i loko o nā pilikia a ʻike i ka pepehi ʻana o kona kaikuahine iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o kona kū ʻana ma hope ona e hoʻopau i kēlā wā paʻakikī.
- Manaʻo ka poʻe ʻepekema ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikuahine e pepehi ana i kona kaikuahine he mea ia e kōkua ai iā ia e ʻimi i kahi hana kūpono.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ke kaikunāne i kona kaikunāne me ka pahi
Hoʻopuka nā mea unuhi i ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikunāne me ka pahi, nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi, e like me:
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kaikunāne i pepehi i kona kaikunāne me ka pahi ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pōmaikaʻi mai iā ia.
- Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane ma ka moeʻuhane ua pepehi ʻia ʻo ia e kona kaikunāne me ka pahi, hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka hopena o kēia mau pilikia a me ka kokoke loa o ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana ma waena o lākou inā he paio ma waena o lākou.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kaikunāne e pepehi ana i kona kaikunāne me ka pahi e hōʻike ana e loaʻa i ka mea moeʻuhane ke kālā kūpono mai kāna hana i kēia manawa, ʻoiai nā pilikia e kū nei.
- No ka nana aku i ka Makaula nona ka hakaka a me ka inaina i kona ola ana i kona pepehi ana i kona kaikaina me ka pahi, he hoailona ia o ka lanakila ana maluna o kona poe enemi, a lanakila ia lakou.
Ke ʻike nei i ka pepehi ʻana i koʻu kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane
ʻAʻohe mea kānalua i ka ʻike ʻana o ka mea hiamoe i ka pepehi ʻana i kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻāla ai i ka manaʻo hopohopo a me ka makaʻu i kona kaikunāne, a no ia mea ke hoihoi nei mākou i kēia ʻano ma ka haʻi ʻana i nā wehewehe nui loa o ka poʻe naʻauao no ia mea.
- ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kekahi e pepehi ana i koʻu kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane e aʻo aku i ka mea moeʻuhane i ka pono e hoʻokokoke i kona kaikunāne, e hahai iā ia, a e aʻo mau iā ia.
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana i koʻu kaikunāne e hōʻike ana e hele pū ana ʻo ia me nā hoaaloha ʻino e hōʻeha iā ia.
- Inā ʻike ka makāula i ka pepehi ʻana i kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha ia o kona ʻano noʻonoʻo maikaʻi ʻole e hele nei a me ka hoʻomalu ʻana o ke kaumaha a me nā hopohopo ma luna ona, a he moeʻuhane paipu wale nō ka ʻike.
Ua moe au ua pepehi au i ko'u kaikunane me ka pahi
- Ināʻike ka wahine male e pepehi anaʻo ia i kona kaikunāne me ka pahi ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki paha i kēia ke hōʻikeʻaʻoleʻo ia i kamaʻilio me ia a nīnau e pili ana iā ia no ka manawa lōʻihi.
- ʻO ka mea i ʻike ma ka moeʻuhane ua pepehi ʻo ia i kona kaikaina me ka pahi a laila hoʻi hou i ke ola, he hōʻailona kēia o ka hiki ʻana mai o ka maikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli a me ka lohe ʻana i ka ʻōlelo maikaʻi.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i koʻu kaikunāne i pepehi iaʻu me ka pahi
- Manaʻo kekahi poʻe akamai i ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane Pahi pepehi ma ka moeuhane Ma keʻano laulā, hōʻike ia i ka ʻike ʻana i ka hewa a i ʻole ka hoʻopunipuni mai ka poʻe a puni ʻoe, inā mai ke kua.
- Aka, ina e pilikia nui ana ka Makaula i kona ola ana a ike aku i kona kaikunane i ka pepehi ana ia ia me ka pahi ma ka moeuhane, alaila, he hoailona keia o ka pau ana o kona manao, a me ka oluolu o kona kaumaha me ke kokua ana mai o kona kaikuaana.
- ʻO kekahi poʻe loio e wehewehe i ka hihiʻo a ka mea moeʻuhane no ka pepehi ʻana i kona kaikunāne iā ia me ka pahi ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e loaʻa iā ia ka pōmaikaʻi nui a me ka nui o ka maikaʻi a me ke ola.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i koʻu kaikunāne i pepehi iaʻu
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o koʻu kaikunāne iaʻu me nā pōkā e hōʻike ana e loaʻa i ke kaikuahine ke kālā nui mai ia ia i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
- ʻO ka hihiʻo a ka mea moeʻuhane i ka pana ʻia ʻana o kona kaikunāne i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻopau ʻana i kahi pilikia paʻakikī āna e hele nei a loaʻa i kahi hopena kūpono no kāna mahalo i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a me nā ʻōlelo aʻo a kona kaikunāne.
- ʻO ke kaikunāne e pana ana i kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e komo lākou i kahi ʻoihana hui kūleʻa a loaʻa ka waiwai kālā.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i koʻu kaikunāne i pepehi iaʻu
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o koʻu kaikunāne iaʻu he ʻokoʻa ia mai kekahi kanaka i kekahi, no laila ʻike mākou i loko o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka wahine male, aia nā hōʻailona e ʻokoʻa mai nā wahine hoʻokahi a me nā mea ʻē aʻe:
- Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane e pepehi ana kona kaikunāne iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane a aia ke kuʻikahi ma waena o lāua, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ke kuʻikahi ma waena o lāua.
- ʻO ka mea ʻike i kona kaikuaʻana e pepehi ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane me ka hou ʻana iā ia me ka pahi, he ʻōlelo aʻo ia iā ia no ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka kumakaia mai ka poʻe kokoke iā ia.
- Akā, inā ʻike ka makāula i kona kaikuaʻana e hou ana iā ia ma ka ʻōpū ma ka moeʻuhane a pepehi iā ia, e hōʻike ana paha kēia e hakakā nei ʻo ia me kahi hoa paio ikaika ma kāna hana.
- ʻO ka wahine male i ʻike i kona kaikunāne e pepehi ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona ia no kona manaʻo hopohopo a hopohopo no ka nui o nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma waena ona a me kāna kāne.
- Ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka wahine hoʻokahi e ʻike ana i kona kaikunāne e pepehi ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona ia o kona kūlana noʻonoʻo maikaʻi ʻole ma muli o kona ʻehaʻeha.
